Why you feel torn between two choices and how IFS therapy helps
Many people feel torn between two choices. You may lean toward one option, then pull back and question yourself. This kind of inner conflict can create tension and worry. Internal Family Systems therapy offers a gentle way to understand these moments. It helps you notice the different parts of you that want different things and shows how they each try to protect you. When you slow down and listen to these parts, the pressure eases and clarity grows.
Understanding and Healing Shame Through IFS Therapy
What if shame wasn’t a flaw, but a part trying to protect us from rejection and exposure. Through the Internal Family Systems (IFS), we can begin to see shame not as the enemy, but as a misunderstood guardian that longs to be seen and relieved of its burden.
When Your Inner Critic Sounds Like the Voice of Reason
Your inner critic often sounds helpful, but it’s usually just scared. IFS therapy helps you meet it with compassion, not shame, so it can finally rest.
How IFS Therapy Can Help You Stop Self-Sabotaging
Self-sabotage isn't about weakness. It's often a protective part trying to shield you from pain. IFS therapy helps you meet that part with compassion.
Setting Boundaries with Internal Family Systems: Negotiating with Your Parts
You know you need boundaries. You've read the books, listened to the podcasts, practiced saying no. But when the moment comes, you cave. You say yes when you mean no. You over-explain. You let people cross lines you swore you'd hold.
Here's what most boundary advice misses: It's not that you don't know how to set boundaries. Rather, it's that parts of you are terrified of what will happen if you do. Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy offers a revolutionary understanding of why boundaries feel impossible and how to heal the parts that block them. This isn't about learning better boundary scripts or practicing assertiveness. It's about understanding the protective system that believes boundaries = danger.